My 8-Year‐Old Grandson Helped Me Find the Love of My Life at 65 — My Story
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At 65, my fear of growing old alone started to worsen. With just my 8-year-old grandson with me at home, I wanted to find a partner to love – and my grandson led me right to him.
I’ve raised my 8-year-old grandson Max by myself ever since his parents died in a tragic car accident. I love Max with my whole heart, but I don’t want to burden him with the thought of having to take care of me once I get older. To me, it shouldn’t be his responsibility to put his life on hold just to care for me.
Now that I’m 65 years old, the thought of growing old alone has been bothering me a lot more. While I once had a husband, he left me for another woman he had met at a work conference and hasn’t kept in touch since our divorce was finalized.
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I wanted to find myself a companion, but I know that at my age, it’d be difficult to find someone single in an appropriate age range in our neighborhood. One day, I was talking to my good friend Mila about it, and she suddenly opened up an idea to me.
“Georgina, it’s a great idea for you to find companionship. I’m proud of you for being true to yourself and acknowledging that,” she commended.
“Do you know where to find an eligible bachelor?” I joked. “I haven’t done this in ages!”
After a short pause, Mila’s eyes lit up. “As a matter of fact, I do! One of the ladies at my gym mentioned finding a date on this special dating site… you’ll find men in their 60s on there with their complete profiles. Why don’t you give it a try?” she suggested.
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“A dating site?” I thought to myself as I walked home. “Isn’t that dangerous?”
When I got home, Max had already been dropped off by the school bus. “Hey, grandma!” he said, giving me a tight hug when he saw me entering the front door.
“Hey, you,” I replied as we walked to the living room together. “How was school?”
“School was good. I got an A on my math test. How about you, grandma? How was your lunch with Aunt Mila?” he asked. My ever-so-thoughtful boy, I smiled before thinking whether or not I should be honest with my answer.
“Well, Max, to tell you the truth, it was quite an interesting lunch,” I began to say.
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“How so?” he asked, trying to press for more details.
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